Education is to develop habits

 Education is to cultivate habits
education should promote the overall development of each person, that is physical, mental, intellectual, sensitivity, aesthetic sense, personal responsibility, and other aspects of the development of spiritual values. Should make everyone, especially their education through adolescence , can form an autonomous, full of the ideology of critical spirit, and develop their own ability to judge, to determine his own life by a variety of different circumstances he thought it should do.
mm Treasure Within important thing is which university, which it learned of the lab? reporter was very surprised and asked: a lot. For example, half of our own things to small partners; not do their own things to take; something to put neat; wash hands before eating; to rest after lunch; done something wrong to apologize for; learning to more think, to carefully observe nature. I think that all the things I learned is that these. Scientists believe they have learned life the most important things is the kindergarten teacher to teach them good habits.
Benjamin. Franklin was the most influential in American history is one of the great man. As scientists, writers, foreign , inventors, artists, philosophers, Franklin learned, he self-study French, Spanish, Italian, Latin, and guide the United States embarked on the road of independence. Franklin's success also comes from his habit of use. < br> Franklin invented a way a young age, he was essential to the success of the first list of 13 conditions: temperance, silence, order, determination, thrift, diligence, sincerity, justice, moderation, cleanliness, quiet, pure and humility; then, Franklin determined to get these 13 virtues, and a good habit; this end, he designed a successful record of the table, occupies one of each virtue, drawing good lattice, if every night were found when self-examination does not meet that day where, to use a pen to make a mark. is to put these virtues into the Franklin to the success habits.
Franklin 79 years old, his own life were recorded in his autobiography. in that the immortal his autobiography, Franklin took a full 15 pages, in particular the narrative of his great invention, he thought that all his success and happiness come from this great invention, it is customary control. Benjamin Franklin in his autobiography wrote: ; Lin Wang , Lin Wang to break the chains to the Monkey Mountain to see the monkey boy, I did not expect too much force, and the chain earned his nose raw so. his bloody nose, I thought: too raw so, it wants: Day after day, year after year, Lin Wang grown elephants. this time can break the chains Lin Wang 潇洒走一回 outside, but, after two previous failures, Lin Wang has been customary , that they are impossible to break this chain, it is no longer thought to play outside. and eventually, die of old age in the elephant room, Lin Wang, until death, and Lin Wang is not cool to go to achieve the aspirations of the world.
visible, used to determine the life of Lin Wang mediocrity. British materialist philosopher, the founder of modern experimental science, Francis Bacon, the founder of scientific induction, and his remarkable achievements. he said with deep feeling about habits: ; habit is really a tough and great power, it can dominate one's life, so from an early age through education and training should be a good habit. University of Washington and Warren Buffett invited to lecture, when students were asked some obstacles to play their full power of things? The reason is that habits, character and attitude. > So, what is it used?
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Confucius said: British educator John Locke in his give them an indispensable practice, so they fixed them up. This makes them develop a habit, this habit once later, do not need the help of memory, easily and naturally occurring role. sow a habit, you will reap a character; sow a character, you will reap a destiny. customary for the children's lives, learning and even career success is critical. educator Mr. Chen Heqin China, said: ; used to keep well, benefiting life, raising good habits for life by their tired. enormous potential. for our children's healthy growth and happiness of life, every parent needs to attach great importance to the child's habits.
tao famous educator once said: into good habits. , and to self-education, the purpose of or in the habit, and enhance capacity. used the more natural the better, more enhanced capacity the better. proposed s One educator's educational thought. s One early study in the United States, under the tutelage of Master John Dewey Progressive Education in the United States. After returning home, his lifelong commitment to the transformation of Chinese education, educational philosophy and practical experience are very rich.
Tao that childhood personality and habit formation is the best time. In his education is important; from Montessori early childhood education has been life-long study, people began to feel the effect of kindergarten; sent home from primary school compared with the attention of kindergarten students rise to the nature of early childhood education began to feel the world is actually the foundation of life, must-established firm in his early as possible. Children need scholars to tell us where the important life habits, tendencies, attitudes, culture most successful in the past six years. In other words, six years before the mold is the most important period of personality. this time culture well, after just let it naturally become good molecular; would help if training properly, then become a difficult habit to change, tend to be a difficult shift, attitudes must not easily be changed. how to raise children's well used to it?
one good habit to cultivate in life educator Yukichi Fukuzawa, said Japan
: so, children develop the habit of the main in the home, parents should focus on in life, all good habits among children.
s One that learning knowledge and skills to carry out the best in life, habits more should be. In his that the life of all times with the significance of education. Therefore, we say that life is education l r, full of life, which is full of education; the whole society is a place of life, that life education education establishments hh born, and students with him. born is breaking Mongolia, into the coffin be considered hh to whichever school, are living books are knowledge, skill hh are owned since human society is the school of life is education. ;
German philosopher Immanuel Kant's education from an early age under his father developed a strict lifestyle. It is said that after his daily walk to the town fountain, and each time he passes the fountain, time must point to seven am point. This methodical style of thinking is the root of the philosopher tight. can be seen, good for a person's lifestyle plays an active role in the success.
family is the first environment children grow up, a child HABIT cradle of children 6 years old living mainly in the family, family life, impact on children is very important.
have a child named Yang Yang, due to busy parents, grandparents Yangyang follow life from childhood, my grandparents Yangyang is loved for. They always take care of perhaps Yangyang. When Yang Yang to enter kindergarten, will not alone on the toilet, not to eat, sleep does not own hh Yang Yang in life simply do not learn good self-care habits! this time, Yang Yang's parents did not realize the seriousness of the house quickly received the Yangyang, Yangyang the habits of the training.
Thus, life is education, parents should suitable for children to create a positive family environment at the same time, parents should be kept in behavior, manners and conversation, etc. One of the best role model for children, talking to the attention of manners to be gentle, showing the noble values, ethical behavior and good habits. If you can frequently lead by example, such long-term nurturing of children in the nurture of the best educated, through over time, so that children form good habits unconsciously.
Second, the good habits in practice Training
habit in practice, to keep personally, so second nature. Tao Xingzhi attaches great importance to educational theory of life in the doing. Therefore, he advocated in the habit of doing that in practice care habit. In his , have a true knowledge of the harvest.
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What is said: be considered as we have that power. If you do not achieve the degree of natural habit, but reluctantly do a do, it means that we do not have that ability. is not strong, that is how much a person does not develop the meaning of habit. For example Joe Smith is not strong memory is that Joe Smith did not see, hear some of the things to remember at practice. skills, said John Doe is not good, that is, that John Doe did not say their thoughts and feelings out of the habit. Therefore, the more habits, the stronger the ability of that person. doing things, you need all the capacity, the most important thing is to develop all sorts of habits. Algebra was not difficult for me to be his father's teaching methods, so that our spirit is not peace, every mistake must be corrected. He told me accidentally mistake the first time is a warning, a cry of what is sharp and loud l r, if I do not immediately corrected, he would sternly reprimanded me out, do it again I r. l I have met more than a capable person, but they later nothing. because these people to learn relaxation, not bound by strict discipline. I received from my father is such a severe discipline training. > Third, we must seize the key to education since the Austrian animal psychologists of
Lorenz found the key to development of animal behavior, and won the Nobel Prize, to carry out a wide range of human capabilities and behavior of their own critical period of development.
study found that children have a habit of critical issues. kindergartens and primary schools is to develop habits and study habits of critical period, and to the school, that is used during the transformation.
in childhood develop good habits, children can benefit from life; in childhood and developed a bad habit, it is possible for life to be hurt. Therefore, in the process of habit, we must pay attention to the use of children in the critical period. If you miss the critical period, the transformation of habits will be much more difficult than the shape. seize the habit of critical period, can get very good results. The following table is used in some children develop the critical period. age of 2 years 3 years 3 ? 4 ? 4 years 5 years 6 years 5 years and a half capacity of awareness of the rules used to count observation language communication skills ability to create life, the concept of thinking to develop a good habit to make children, parents must pay attention to the first occurrence of the behavior of children . For example, when children first curse, he is not driven by morality, but rather amused. At this time, the children will watch their parents or other adults in response to their actions. If the adult's attitude is cold and serious, the child will understand: feel that their behavior is by adults like, this, he will increase the frequency of such acts, which develop bad habits. Therefore, parents must pay attention to grasp the critical period of education to educate children.
four , to cultivate good habits, bad habits to correct
For parents, children need to cultivate good habits, but be careful not to let children develop bad habits. because of the bad habit once to have a natural drive force and psychological inertia, and sometimes even without the external conditions, habits behavior can also be made. Many children know that they sometimes have a bad habit, but are often unable to control themselves and repeat the bad habits. this time, parents should help children inhibition and to correct bad habits.
So, what is a bad habit? tao that their habit is never too much, but there are not two kinds of habits, in addition to other habits the better. This habit is both : What habits do not develop the habit and prejudice other people's habits.
What is harmful habits. He said: to maintain minimum health, but these habits are not formed within a short time, and to gradually develop. In the absence of cultivation, when, how much work needs some force, that she has always alert to the natural habit until l r, to be for life habits. But if at first not mandatory and awareness, today the East, tomorrow the West, Today so, then morrow as to what habits may raise accomplished. Over time, this became a habit, firmly on the body had roots. This is not what used to develop the habit, the least desirable. prejudice to the others the habit of This affects both learning and work of others, but also can transmit the bacteria, once accustomed to the habit of becoming a prejudice of others. the close relationship, do not know how to love other people, all the habits of others tend to prejudice, the most likely to be a villain.
to cultivate the good habit, bad habits to correct. China Youth Research Center, Sun Yun Xiao, deputy director of the formula : cultivate good habits with the addition, subtraction used to overcome bad habits.
example, in fostering children's reading habits, interest can be combined with features of first choice kids story book, Deep, from short to long. not happen overnight, in your long-term persistence. a careful observation of mother son homework, for a drink, for a pee out of four or five times less than an hour. The mother did not look in the eyes of anxious, but the next day homework to the children before the child a suggestion: sit down and do something before the run, I do homework when you can come out three times. the child in his mother's encouragement to go out really small one; mother also suggested a few days further reduced once the child has easily done. of parents in descending order, until the child can concentrate on the job finish, both to help children overcome the bad habits, but more importantly to protect the child's self-confidence.
another parents who practice more interesting. his children to read and write very bad habit, often very close to the eyes from the book. He was worried that children will suffer from myopia, very distressed. Later, he went to consult an education expert. education experts asked the parents, the child has any special likes and dislikes. Then he remembered the child is very sensitive to the smell of onions. Thus, education experts advise parents to juice green onions coated on the desktop, and told the parents, this can help children develop a good habit to read and write. The parents skeptical, but still do it by means of education experts. Sure enough, this method is really effective. It turned out that when children write, close to the desktop once the head low, his stimulation of the eyes to shed tears can not stand the green onions, which had raised his head. Over time, children really correct bad habits.
education on this method is called can not only correct the child in the habit of behavior, but also to correct the child's bad habit of some psychological effect is also good.
, of course, correct bad habits children not only need to weaken the act, but also with some great people ideological work, such as psychological counseling and forward induction, to participate in a variety of methods, coordination, bad habits can be eliminated.
five, correct bad habits children have perseverance
Ushinski Russian educator said: interest torture people, make him the best initiative fails, and directed him to the point of moral bankruptcy. br> American study found that a habit requires 21 days. In other words, helped them develop a good habit for at least 21 days. However, if the child had developed a bad habit, to correct the bad children habits take time to be more than 21 days. This requires parents to correct the course of a child to have a bad habit of perseverance.
fact, a bad habit of correcting the child, parents should be made directly to the bad bad habit influence, and as touched the hearts of children, so much easier to correct them.
in one can not overcome the habit, such as smoking? Paul said: hh asked himself pumping smoke? smoked. He did not know the benefits of smoking? know. but quit it mmm and addictive. The cigarette win to crumble to bits, said: get rid of an important reason, is not determined, persistence is not strong. Franklin said: But why get rid of some, others get rid of? The key is to recognize bad habits not only the dangers, but also to make a determined effort to change. In this way, such as smoking, drinking, spitting and other bad habits, is to get rid of the.
educator William. Cunningham said that such a fable:
a person is walking in the desert, suddenly, a voice said to him: pocket, tomorrow you will and pleasure and regret. that is not pocket pebbles, but diamonds, emeralds and rubies. He was very happy, and pretty soon, he was very sorry. He was pleased that his took some pebbles, regret, he did not get some more .
education is also the truth. parents how to educate their children today, tomorrow, what kind of person the child will become. habits like pebbles, like those, you are now more than some good habits among children, tomorrow's children will be diamonds, green precious stones and rubies. At that time, you as parents, and the fable of the people, but be pleased, but also regret. pleased that your child have some good habits, regret is that you can actually more good habits among children. So, why not start today as more children to pick some of pebbles it? tomorrow, these pebbles will become a child a lifetime of wealth, let him happy life.
habit of life the habit of life < br> education practitioners Feng Enhong once said: To learn to behave, he may go to work, learn, communicate with others.
life education, human children actually develop the correct attitude and character. If the parents not the child's human attitudes and character education, children will undoubtedly will develop some bad habits, these habits will directly affect the child with people.